In new era, people are
communicated through computer, hand phone, or social media such as email,
Facebook, Twitter and others that people using by internet nowadays. Therefore,
social media is one of the communication technologies among the people and society.
People think that it is more convenient and efficient to interact with one
another. Communication technology has influenced people into different kind of
social behavior which can be positive and negative way in the society. It will
also causes the people change their attitude, opinion and perception through
their mindset.
Aggressive may be
applied to a specific behavior such as killing. It can cause another injury or
creating destruction, attacking another, or simply engaging in fighting. Communication
technology has influenced people into aggressive attitude because of the social
media and with so many technology devices exist in the world. Aggressive
attitude is one of the social behaviors that cause physical or emotional harm
and threaten to other people. Aggressive attitude is a big
problem because it will occur frequently or in a pattern of people. Generally,
aggressive attitude started from people who are inability to control his or her
behavior.
Besides, aggressive
attitude has been affected people in many ways. In the past, these actions
could be better controlled because of people were limited to face-to-face
interactions (Richard Donegan, n.d., p. 33).
However, the communication
technology has increasing among the public year by year in the society. People
will changed their attitude and behavior with the advancement of technology. In
recent years, people has conflict between each other has become more dangerous
and harder to control their attitude because of the communication technology
appear among the society. For instance, the teenagers are learning many types
of behavior from communication technology such as television, internet, social
media and so on. Besides that, people
nowadays are more direct and straight forward that they could not control their
attitude such as bad-tempered and easily to get conflict with another when they
felt angry. Not only that, it will cause to damage the relationship between the
people especially their friends and family.
However, aggressive attitude has used communication technology such as social media that can cause cyber-bullying. Cyber-bullying can be defined as an aggressive attitude among people because that is intended to hurt someone in psychological, physical stress and emotional form (Olweus, 2012). Cell phones, social media sites, chat rooms, and other forms of technology have allowed bullying to expand into cyberspace. Cyber-bullying is one of the new forms of abuse. Cyber-bullying is one of the aggressive bullying via social media such as blogging, social networking websites, emails, instant messengers, and web-forums are ways that today’s technologically savvy culture can communicate with others all over the world (Christopher P. Barlett & Douglas A. Gentile, 2012).
However, aggressive attitude has used communication technology such as social media that can cause cyber-bullying. Cyber-bullying can be defined as an aggressive attitude among people because that is intended to hurt someone in psychological, physical stress and emotional form (Olweus, 2012). Cell phones, social media sites, chat rooms, and other forms of technology have allowed bullying to expand into cyberspace. Cyber-bullying is one of the new forms of abuse. Cyber-bullying is one of the aggressive bullying via social media such as blogging, social networking websites, emails, instant messengers, and web-forums are ways that today’s technologically savvy culture can communicate with others all over the world (Christopher P. Barlett & Douglas A. Gentile, 2012).
It defined as an aggressive intentional act carried out by a group or individual,
using electronic forms of contact, repeatedly and over time against a victim
who cannot easily defend him or herself (Smith et al., 2008, p. 376). For
example, people are using digital technology that involves sending those threatening
messages through emails, phone calls, or social media, or sexual harassment
against someone's life, spreading rumors, sharing another person’s private
things and so on. This kind of cyber-bullying will harm others mentally or
emotionally. As compared to traditional bullying, the aggressor is identified,
sarcasm is apparent, and the physical pains of the victims are clear.
Cyber-bullying
is a very serious matter. For example, students have taken their own lives
because they felt pressured, embarrassed and felt they had no other
alternatives to escape from the problem they face. With so many technology
devices available and the cyber world will lead the people become out of
control to do anything. Other than that, the researcher has found out that boys
are more likely to be cyber bullies, and girls are more likely to be victims
(Wang et al., 2009). Since new media and cell phones are harder to control and
monitor, parents need to take preventive action that can help minimize the
effects of cyber-bullying on their children. In order to prevent
cyber-bullying, parents must be actively involved in their children’s cyber
lives.
There is much
kind of cyber-bullying cases that happened in Malaysia. Several cyber-bullying
cases which took place in 2014 are not just spreading on social media; it also
hit national news headlines. One of the cases of cyber-bullying in Malaysia was
Sheena Liam who is a local model of Malaysian Chinese descent and the winner of
Asia's Next Top Model. After clinching the coveted ‘Asia’s Next Top Model’
title, local model Sheena Liam was thrown in to the gutter after she
unceremoniously fell victim of cyber-bullying. During the show’s showdown,
Sheena Liam beat two other contestants from the Philippines. Naturally, her
fans were felt confused. They posted to the Instagram to criticize Sheena Liam and
comment that she was not the deserving winner. For the record, the fans walked
the extra mile to lambast her, right down to using profanity words in their
comments.
Any teenagers
today was born in a world where the technology devices and social networks make
up a part of their daily life, it is hard for them to imagine a world with no internet,
no digital camera, no Facebook or no smartphone. The new communication
technology made up their daily life more interesting and happiness. It will
make the people be presumptuous and they will not think about the consequences
before they done wrongly. In addition, social media allow people to be more
creative as it gives the users freedom to produce content that they share with
their peers. People nowadays like to use social media such as Facebook,
Instagram, Wechat to share their status, photos and chat with others through
social media. Yet, most parents probably still don’t even have Facebook
accounts or don’t understand how their children use them. Parents and children
share different values when it comes to personal privacy and information sharing.
The teenagers nowadays are having cameras all around, taking photos on a moment
notice and sharing them with their friends. Most parents don’t even know how to
turn on the camera on their phone properly, and have even less knowledge on how
to transfer the photos to a social network like Facebook and others. Therefore,
there are no any cases that happened cyber-bullying in the past years.
As a conclusion,
we must stop aggressive attitude in our social lives because
it affects to develop community or country and it will change the people’s mind
in different way. We should behave our attitude in positive way but not in
negative way. Prevention in aggressive behavior is the best hope and we have to
improve the social lives of children and adults in the next generation.
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